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I have been hiding from the world for a while now. It’s my typical MO when things are overwhelming me and have me feeling pretty down. I’ve even been hiding from my best friend - the one person you’d think I would turn to when things are going bad in my life. She and I have been best friends since we were 12 years old - 23 years - if anyone knows me it’s her.
So yesterday she reached out to me one last time to see about us getting together and I did write her back and talked about the surface layer of some of the things that have been bothering me. Besides yelling at me (in a good way) about not reaching out to her sooner she also left me with this quote -
Remember that depression is merely anger without enthusiasm. So, either get enthusiastic or get happy!
I never really thought about it that way - as being anger in any form. But I guess I am angry, about a lot of things and I do the only thing I know how to do - stuff the feelings as far down as I can. So maybe I need to get enthusiastic and exorcise some of my anger.
Oh and my best friend - she’s coming over to visit on Saturday and give me the kick in the ass I need to get back to living again. That’s what I love about her the most.























Oh Jules, I’m so sorry that you are down. I have been worrying about you. Please listen to your friend and start “living again” I know how hard it is to get back up after you have been down for awhile. If you need anyone else to talk to, you have my email addy. Use it. anytime.
hugs,
StacieStacie
November 9th, 2005 at 12:03 pm
Your friend is right. Depression is related to anger.
mrs. diamondHope you’re feeling better hun. Thank God for our friends eh. They are truly our angels with skin on.
November 9th, 2005 at 12:49 pm
you for you! good for you for LETTING your friend come over, nad good for your friend for not being too lame to point out this to you.
I know when I am feeling that way, it is hard for me to let people be around me. especially those that know me the best.
cmhlNovember 9th, 2005 at 2:07 pm
True friends are great like that, they’re always there for you when the chips are down ready to give you honest advice.
AimzNovember 9th, 2005 at 2:20 pm
Yay for best friends!
SnapperNovember 9th, 2005 at 2:59 pm
You have been quiet. Glad to see you are willing to get that kick in the bum to get you out of your blues. Always here if you need to vent!
TheresaNovember 10th, 2005 at 10:40 am
I meant to tell you. The job thing? the sick to leave, but too sick to work? I had the same problem last December.
I’ve been feeling inward lately too, which I suppose is why I feel I’ve been so quiet. Thankfully, the move will shake things up, and I’ll be closer to some good friends.
AutumnNovember 10th, 2005 at 3:18 pm
Enjoy your visit on Saturday. And I hope you have a really good talk.
Cas
cassie-bthree cheers for enthusiasm!
November 11th, 2005 at 9:40 am