What To Do

December 1, 2005 |

So what do you do when someone you love does something so disappointing that you are just shocked and numb? How do you deal? How do you not feel like everything that was going so well can’t anymore? I’m just at a loss tonight.


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10 Comments so far

  1. Theresa on December 2, 2005 9:00 am

    Uh oh…email me if you want. We can talk it out, ok??

  2. Aimz on December 2, 2005 1:35 pm

    Oh yeah I’ve had those feelings many times. I don’t have any advice but I’m thinking and praying for you Jules.

  3. cassie-b on December 2, 2005 1:46 pm

    I guess it happens to all of us at times. And I certainly don’t know the answer.

    I hope things look a little better today.
    Cas

  4. Marcia on December 2, 2005 8:44 pm

    I don’t know but I’m sorry that you’re hurting. Will keep you in my prayers.

  5. Autumn on December 3, 2005 10:07 am

    That’s certainly a question we all ask our selves at times, something I’ve been struggling with recently.

    *hugs* My thoughts are with you.

  6. VJ on December 3, 2005 4:22 pm

    I had something shocking and numbing happen to me in January. After that person told me what was going on, I put my foot down and told that person that before that person could enter my door again, certain people (the pastor, and a counselor)had to be called and appointments made. I told that person what had happened was a divorcible (in my book) offense, and unless changes were made, that is what would happen.

    Changes were willingly made and life is better for it.

  7. Stacie on December 4, 2005 11:56 pm

    aww jules, I dont know whats goin on, but you are certainly in my thoughts and prayers. Listen to your heart, and go with your gut instinct. Do what feels right and what needs to be done.

    take care, *hugs*
    Stacie

  8. Snapper on December 5, 2005 5:56 am

    Oh no….I’m keeping you in my thoughts.

  9. Bev on December 5, 2005 9:10 am

    Hope things work out for you.

  10. Eyes for Lies on December 5, 2005 2:22 pm

    Goodness, you are going through a difficult time that doesn’t seem to be ending.

    When someone disappoints you that much, it is a message — deep and from beyond. I always ask myself “Am I learning the lesson, or am I going to repeat this again?” That’s the big Q.

    I am so sorry that you hurt your ankle! Here is to healing with god-speed!

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